1. Relax your mind, clear it from all images, desires and aims. The deeper you relax the more you feel

2. Concentrate on everything you can feel and sense at each particular moment of lovemaking: smell, sound, touch, movements, look.

3. Breath slowly, calmly and deeply, bringing peace to every part of your body and mind.

4. Feel love: when your body is relaxed and your mind is at peace start to feel endless romantic love in your heart to the person you are with. Everybody can create this feeling consciously like religious people feel love of God when they go to church.

5. Bring this love into your every movement and touch. If you do this your touch will become soft and gentle, your movements will become slow and careful, your body will become like a body of a snake winding round the body of your partner, your hands will become like soft brushes painting on smooth silk, your lips and tongue will become like a velvet rose opening to the sun.

6. Enjoy yourself, enjoy touching with love and receiving a touch of love without analysing and asking yourself whether you are doing right or wrong. When you feel love your body will do everything right. When you feel a possessive sexual desire to grab another person (the reaction which pornography creates in us) your body will behave as hurting, tense, clumsy and irritating even if you do not notice this yourself! Some call this passion. In Tantric and Taoist practice passion is equal to lust, a simple instinct we all have. The reason why wives stop wanting to make love to their husbands lies in the inability of men to restrain this instinct and turn it into loving energy flow.

 

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